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Tube Feeding (Fluids and Food) |
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 Introduction
- Why is it sometimes so hard to let patient go without eating ?
In all cultures and throughout all history, offering food has been
a sign of caring and hospitality. Our mothers made sure we were well
fed. Most people enjoy eating with family and friends, especially
on special occasions. In most religions, food is part of sacred rituals.
It is no wonder, then, when someone we love is unable to eat and drink
naturally, that we feel compelled to "feed" them in some way. It seems
to be basic caring.
But, as death approaches, you will not "keep up your strength" by
forcing yourself to eat when it makes you uncomfortable. If eating
is a social event for you, or providing food is one of the common
ways of expressing caring in your family, your loss of appetite may
be distressing to you and your loved ones. You might enjoy small amounts
of home-cooked food, dishes that mean something special to you. However,
you should also know that a decrease in appetite is natural and eating
less may increase, rather than decrease, comfort.
Because most dying people are more comfortable without eating or drinking
near the end of life, forcing food or liquids is usually not beneficial,
especially if restraints, IVs, or hospitalization would be required.
Not forcing someone to eat or drink is not letting him "starve to
death."
The truth is, for those who are dying, the times come when it might
be more compassionate, caring, even natural, to allow a natural dehydration
to occur. Forcing tube feedings and IVs on dying patients can make
the last days of their lives more uncomfortable. |
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Adapted from The
Handbook for Mortals: Guidance for People Facing Serious Illness,
by Joanne Lynn and Joan Harrold, copyright by Joanne Lynn, used by
permission of Oxford University Press.
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